For the Japanese, the practice of giving omiyage (souvenirs) is ingrained practically from birth. It's just something you do without question - if you go away on a trip, you are expected to bring back token gifts for family/friends/coworkers. It's part of the wide-ranging, ongoing tradition of giving and receiving gifts in Japanese culture.
Omiyage are often representative of the area you visited, so in Japan this might be a certain type of locally made condiment, sake or sweets. Food is a common thing to bring back, but I've noticed when traveling overseas, nihonjin often purchase anything available at the Duty Free shop - brand name goods, liquor, perfume. The point is, you don't go back empty handed, and it really doesn't matter if it's a token, mass-produced item from a souvenir shop or something more extravagant. The gesture and the thought is more significant than the item itself.
When extended overseas visits to family are involved, the omiyage-giving endeavor becomes a little more complex. You generally ask your family outright if they want something specific, or they make requests. For my sisters in Tokyo, that generally means schlepping back American chocolate (See's, Reese's Peanut Butter Cups, Ghirardelli), California wine, microwave popcorn, vitamins, and something trendy/fashionable like accessories, small purses and make-up. The bounty (and my luggage size) grows as my parents and other sister in the States add to the omiyage.
But I know during my Tokyo visit my sisters' friends will extend their hospitality towards me in some way, so I should have extra omiyage. Then you never know who else might end up doing you a favor, so I have to pack the back-up omiyage of San Francisco T-shirts and so forth. This may sound like a ridiculous amount of planning and expense just for a short vacation, but trust me, these omiyage will be reciprocated when I leave, and also, when my sisters come to visit me in the States.
On my last trip to Tokyo, I decided the omiyage was getting out of control when I found myself hand-carrying a panini maker for a friend - but on a previous visit to the States he'd brought me an antique stationery box, so I kind of owed him. Then I'd designated an entire suitcase for other gifts including an Akira Kurosawa Criterion Collection DVD set, several bottles of wine and six cans of Spam for my oldest sister Myrah (yes, it's considered a treat over there, and it's expensive).
I need to find smaller, lighter gifts for my upcoming trip. Ideas, anyone? Starbucks gift cards? Maybe high-end T-shirts for everybody this time. But then again...when my sis Penny visited with her husband Masao last week, I really scored on the goods! See my photos above.
One thing for sure: Japanese gifts are far superior when it comes to packaging and presentation. They make Stateside souvenirs look like stuff from Schlock City, U.S.A. I always feel I have to gift-wrap mine before offering them to Japanese recipients.


6 comments:
great article! i love the practice of giving omiyage and the tradition of reusable furoshiki cloth. i have a few suggestions for you: ginger candies that come in a little box that you can get at health food stores, a scarf (it is light weight and doesn't take up a lot of room!), earrings (go to needles and pens in the mission on 16th street @ guerrero they have tons of adorable gifts!)refridgerator magnets (i have found some great one's at Flax on Market, in fact they carry beautiful paper too), veggie or flower seeds, hair clips, hats (go to Hats Design Studio on Valencia at 15th..they have an amazing selection and afforable) sunglasses (Therapy on Valencia at 16th - great selection and cheap!)...hope these ideas help : )
Awesome suggestions Liz, thanks! I tend to always lean towards big brand products that are recognized over there, but I prefer the idea of something more unique. And this will give me an excuse to shop around!
What a treat!
When I think of Japanese arts, I think of simplicity done with harmonious colors and this simplicity resembles the beauty of a Cherokee flowering dogwood.
I'll take all the gifts there except the eels.
I have several Furoshiki that I have used for years... I love them.
Now that my son is married and living in Japan I have more Family to buy for. I usually bring lots of food items.
Target is very popular over in Japan so one year I bought almost everyone Target shopping bags, the fun recycled ones.
Target is the first place my daughter in law asks to visit.
When my daughter goes with me to Japan she spends days making cookies the really involved ones and she has a huge fan base... Tupperware filled with cookies.
We have taken over things they ask for and. . .
American candy, Baseball items, I shop Etsy for beaded bracelets and soap, the scented lotion you get from "Body Time" in Rockridge or Berkley, Arizona nuts you could use California ones, I wrap everything in nice kitchen towels. Easy to pack. No squishing worry.
I love the super thin and crisp Korean Nori, when I go back to California I buy bags full to take back to Arizona..
I miss the good Japanese markets in California, le sigh. . .
I loved your post today.
cheers, parsnip
Thanks Khanh, and thanks angryparsnip! I love the idea of wrapping gifts in nice kitchen towels...like our version of furoshiki!
Korean nori is so good. you just reminded me how much I like it. No Japanese markets near you, eh?
My hubby is leaving for Japan for a few months to work. He wants me to think of what I want him to send home or bring back. I have no clue what to ask for other than some of the food prep items and seaweeds. Perhaps some beautiful papers. Perhaps some of you might have some better suggestions.
Thanks The Diva
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